Things I Wish I Knew Before Starting University

Starting university is like jumping on a rollercoaster with no seatbelt. It’s thrilling, slightly chaotic, and full of unexpected turns, particularly if it’s your first time moving out. But no one gives you a “here’s how to be an adult” handbook, so what should you expect from this newfound freedom?

Whether you’re counting down the days or having a last-minute panic about how many pairs of socks to pack, here are all the most important, honest and slightly random things to know before uni.

1. The Basics of Budgeting

Let’s start with money talk—one of the biggest challenges that students face. When you’re first hit with a chunk of your student loan, you’ll feel rich and consequently act rich. Fast-forward to one week later, and you’ll be shoving your hand down the side of the sofa, praying to find spare change.

But take it from me, it doesn’t have to be that way! Budgeting can help make your money stretch until your next student loan drops—and I’m not talking about buying own-brand groceries. First of all, set aside the money you’ll need for non-negotiables, like rent and bills. Then, divide what you have left over into four to work out your monthly allowance.

From this, you can then create a simple weekly budget sheet or use apps like Monzo and Revolut to separate spending money into pots. This should cover things like food, travel, subscriptions, laundry and nights out.

One of the best first-year university tips I got? Always leave a little buffer for surprise expenses (like three birthdays in one month).

2. Homesickness is Totally Normal

Once the excitement of Freshers Week wears off, you might notice you’re beginning to miss home more—and that’s okay. Some of the ways you can tackle this are by keeping in touch with friends and family, but also by making your new space feel like your own by adding photos, fairy lights and other homely room decor. Finding comfortable student accommodation you genuinely like can make this transition a lot smoother.

3. What do I pack? 

If you’re actually curious about the sock dilemma, I’d recommend at least a week’s worth—around 7–10 pairs. But this depends on how often you do your laundry. No one wants to wear 3-day-old socks, so if you're a serious laundry procrastinator, you might want to consider packing more.

But on a more serious note, you don’t want to spiral from “what’s essential?” to “should I bring my childhood teddy and five different types of frying pans?” So, stick to the basics! Bedding, towels, clothes for all weathers, some kitchenware (just enough to avoid washing up constantly), and the little comforts that make your student accommodation feel homely. Some people like to bring doorstops as a way of making friends and inviting people to come and socialise in your area. And it goes without saying; don’t forget to pack your chargers, extension leads, earphones and any other tech you might need. 

4. Making Friends Can Take Time

There’s a lot of pressure to instantly find your people, but the truth is, friendships take time. Yes, Freshers’ is fun and full-on, but don’t worry if you don’t click with anyone straight away.

Keep going to events, join societies that interest you, and be open to chatting with people in your classes or accommodation. Take it from me—some of your closest friends will be people you meet halfway through the first couple of terms!

5. Cooking 101

This might come as a shock, but at uni, you don’t have to live off instant noodles and cheese toasties for three years. I’m not suggesting you transform into a gourmet chef, but learning a few easy recipes before you move out can make your diet a lot better. Plus, cooking is a great way to make friends with your housemates.

Stir-fry, chilli, jacket potato, and pasta bake are all super simple, and you can customise them to suit your personal taste. I’d recommend checking out food vloggers on YouTube, Instagram and TikTok—it’s a goldmine for student-friendly meal inspo! 

6. Pick the Right Accommodation

Your student accommodation is more important than you think and you’ll probably spend more time there than you expect. Whether you’re studying, chilling or recovering from nights out, having a space where you feel safe, comfy, and welcome really makes all of the difference.

Some accommodation providers, like aparto, are a great choice. With their next-level events calendar, round-the-clock security and even house pets for when you need some extra cuddles, you’ll feel right at home in your new accommodation.

7. Getting to Know Your New City

You won’t feel like a local overnight, and that’s part of the fun. In your first few weeks, take time to explore your new area. Try out new coffee shops, find your favourite study spot, and learn your local bus routes  (or how to get home at 3 am when the buses stop running).

One of the easiest ways to get to know your city is simply by saying yes to invites, even if it’s just a walk to the nearest grocery store. One of the biggest things to remember about what to know before starting university? It’s not just about campus life—it’s about discovering the place you’ll be calling home.

8. No One Really Has it All Figured Out

My last piece of university advice for freshers that I’ll leave you with is that we’re all learning at the same time. Even now, we’re all just winging it a bit, so don’t put too much pressure on yourself to get this whole “adulting” thing straight away. Go at your own pace, and remember that you’re doing great just by being here.

Conclusion

Starting uni is a big deal, and it’s okay to feel a mix of excitement and nerves. With a bit of preparation (and the occasional sock overload), you’ll settle in, grow your confidence, and find your rhythm. Remember, it's okay not to know everything straight away. Ask questions, make mistakes, laugh at yourself, and take each day as it comes. You've already taken the first step by getting here—and that’s something to be proud of. Here's to new chapters, messy kitchens, unexpected friendships, and everything else that comes with student life!

Looking for student accommodation that sets you up for a great start at uni? Explore our locations and find your home with aparto.